Questions for your School Kids #2

Just adding on to the ones from last month:

* What is your favourite time of day?

* If you could go anywhere in the world, where would it be? Why there?
This is also a great question to ask your spouse. I’m thinking Yosemite National Park or Canada.

* If I gave you $10 today, what would you do with it?

* In all the things you’ve had to forgive people of, what has been the toughest thing to forgive? Why?

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I’m thinking about some of these questions in my own life. Try and record their answers somehow. If you have a chance, let me know some of their responses.

Have a wonderful week. Hope all is going well for you now that term 2 is well under way.

Love Chris xx

Jane’s At It Again

The other day we were having coffee and my funny friend Jane says “You’ll never guess what happened to me the other day”. We laughingly said “No darling, we’ll never guess, tell us what happened”. This is how the story goes.

Jane jumped into her daughter’s car, a black snazzy Honda Jazz to go and grab a coffee. Managing to park directly outside the coffee shop she had a little chat with the barista and returned to the car with her coffee.

Happy days until for no reason Jane was unable to get the key into the ignition after several attempts, she then started to panic and that her daughter had been sold a dud car! Suddenly a rather harassed frantic lady started to knock at the window of the car. ‘Geez what now’ thought Jane and impatiently said “Yes can I help you?” To which the lady responded “Excuse me but can I have my car back!”

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On closer inspection Jane realised that in fact she wasn’t sitting in a black Honda Jazz but a light grey Golf Volkswagen car – Clung!!!!!!!!

The poor lady was in a shop next to the coffee shop and by chance glanced out to see Jane in her car and, thinking that she was being carjacked, shouted loudly
“That woman is stealing my car”!!

All ended well but I’m sure the lady will in the future be remembering to use her central locking!!

I hope you get to have a giggle out of this story as much as we did.

Have an enjoyable weekend.

Love Chris xx

Saying Good-Night

Today is the last day that I can say “I have two teenage daughters”. Tomorrow 15th May, Miss Ruby turns 20. In my mind she is still 3. I can still recall when she was 2 or 3 years old, standing with hands on hips, facing Geoff (after he had obviously done something that was displeasing to her) and saying “I’m berry, berry upset with you dad, I’m berry, berry cranky”. How time flies when you’re having fun. Happy Birthday my darling Ruby. Love You xxxx

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Some Thoughts:

We all know that it is important to tuck your little ones in at night. Something that starts whilst your children are young can continue into their teenage years.

When I was a little girl my mum always said “Good night darling, God bless you, sweet dreams, I love you”. I carried this saying over to my children, and I don’t think a night has gone by without me saying it to them. Even if they are going on camp or staying over at someone’s home, I always let them know that around the time they would be going to sleep, just imagine me saying that goodnight phrase.

There were days when they were young, I was pushed to my limit with a demanding, cranky, whiney child and all I wanted to do was run away. But at the end of the day, when they are smelling oh so sweet and looking for that extra bit of love – make a decision to give them that extra cuddle.

When the girls were younger, I was walking upstairs to get ready for bed. I had already kissed and said goodnight, and Geoff was saying his final goodnight. Eloise called out, “Mum, can I have another cuddle?” Groan – all I wanted to do was keep walking and get ready for bed, but I knew that one day I wouldn’t be having my daughters asking for another cuddle.

Geoff has always been the main story teller in our home. He has also given the girls back rubs or head rubs to help them sleep. The lovely thing is our 17 year old still calls out “Dad, when are you going to tuck me in?”. That often translates to a neck massage. He is a great Dad. It also means more conversation, which leads to a better relationship.

On reflecting, sometimes on a Saturday night, when the girls are out at friends’ places (driving themselves now) I often think around 8 o’clock – I wish they were here right now snuggled on the lounge in their winter pyjamas, and we were all watching a kid’s movie together. It’s hard to let go. So I encourage you that no matter how tired you are, take as much time as is needed to tuck them in and say goodnight.

Some ways to let your kids know you love them:

* Make them breakfast in bed

* Leave a little note in their lunch box saying how great they are and how much you love them

* Have a candlelight dinner

* Go for a bike ride together

* Play cards and board games with them (our favourite at the moment is Rummikub)

Have a fun week everyone.

X Chris

Hot Artichoke Dip

I was given this recipe by a neighbour – I’m not sure of it’s origin. It’s very tasty, particularly with a glass of Champagne!

Preparation and Cooking Time: 10 mins prep and 30 mins cooking

Ingredients:

1 x 300 grams jar of marinated artichokes (strained well, individually squeezed and chopped up roughly). Make sure you buy the ones in oil.

2 cloves garlic (crushed) I don’t always add the garlic

1/2 cup grated parmesan cheese (plus a little extra to sprinkle on top)

1/2 cup ‘S&W’ Whole Egg Mayonnaise (must be whole egg mayo, otherwise too vinegary)

Chilli powder to taste (optional – I never put it in)

Mild ground paprika

Method:

Preheat oven to 180 degrees C
Mix all ingredients except paprika
Place mixture in a 28cm oval ovenproof dish and pat lightly
Sprinkle extra parmesan cheese on top
Sprinkle evenly mild paprika
Place in oven, uncovered for approximately 30 mins or until lightly browned
Allow to cool for 5 minutes
Serve with fork or small knife and small biscuits.

This dip is even tasty to those who don’t like artichokes.

When I was a little girl, I had a plastic set of corning ware baking dishes with the original blue flower on them. I loved playing with them and pretended I was a chef on TV (back in those days there was only one cooking show run by the Sydney County Council). The corning ware little baking dish I have used was released about 15 years ago to commemorate the original. I couldn’t help but buy a set now that I’ve grown up.

Happy Mother’s Day to all you wonderful Mums xxxx

A Mother’s Day Letter

A couple of weeks ago when visiting my mum, she was looking at some letters I had written to her. There was one that I had given her with my Mother’s Day card four years ago. My mum was and is a really wonderful mum. She surrounded us with unconditional love growing up (my brother says I spent my teenage years bickering with mum – I may have been a bit feisty). My dad was diagnosed with a degenerative brain tumour when mum was 33 and he was only 40 (I was 10). My parents grew up 4 doors apart, and mum says she fell in love with dad when she was 12. She still kept our family together with the help of my Nanna (Ruby Jewell) and my Uncle John (they lived a km away). Even with dad’s illness and disability always present in our home, mum always put her children first (after attending to dad of course). She nursed and loved him for 10 long years (the last 4 while he was in a nursing home during the week and totally wheelchair bound).

I would like to share the letter with you and hope that it might encourage you to write a letter to your mum this Mother’s Day.

Darling Mum

On reflecting what to write to you on Mothers’ Day, I think of your six grandchildren – how beautiful, well-adjusted, caring young people they all are. I give you credit for these lovely children.

I think I am a good mum and this is because I draw on your mother’s love and my memories and experiences of how you were (and are) a caring and a wonderful mother to us. So, mum, the heritage you leave as a mum and nanna is priceless and cannot be valued. I cannot express to you how often I think about all the little things you did for us as we grew up and I can only try and copy that in my own mothering.

Thank you mum for teaching, showing and demonstrating to me how to be a mum and for being my role-model. I Love You.

Thank you for letting me share that with you.

Happy Mother’s Day to all you outstanding, delightful, magnificent mums. Make sure you take lots of photos of the lovely presents your kids will make for you at school and kindy.

x Chris

Eggplant and Bocconcini Bake

This meal is one of my family’s absolute favourites and it just so happens to come from a dear friend of mine’s cookbook, Naked Food, by the very funny and always entertaining Jane Grover. I make this meal at least every fortnight. The girls weren’t big fans of eggplant, but they are now. You can find Jane at The Beaches Market in Warriewood on the first Friday of the month. I have a bit of a cookbook gathering problem, but I have to say this is one of my favourite cookbooks. Jane has got everything covered for every occasion. I would make something out of her book every week. You can find Jane’s book in most good book & kitchenware stores otherwise please feel free to contact Jane from the information below.

EGGPLANT and BOCCONCINI BAKE

nakedfood2This is my gluten-free take on eggplant parmigiana, without the frying!
It‘s a slow baked vegetarian sensation and is lovely served hot or cold, with mixed salad leaves.

 Serves 6.

What you need

3 large eggplants
 2 tbsp extra virgin olive oil 
½ cup fresh basil leaves
 2 cups (500ml) tomato sauce
 100g bocconcini, sliced
 100g parmesan, finely grated 
salad leaves, balsamic vinegar 
and extra virgin olive oil, to serve

What you do

1. Preheat the oven to 180 deg c (160 deg C fan forced). Cut the eggplant crossways into 1cm thick slices. Slice eggplant into 1cm thick slices. Brush both sides of each slice with oil. Arrange the slices onto an oven tray, and bake for 30 minutes until tender.
2. Brush a 30cm x 18cm x 4cm deep (or similar with an 8 cup capacity) ovenproof dish lightly with oil. Arrange a layer of half the eggplant slices over the base, and top with half the basil leaves. Cover with half the tomato sauce, and top with the bocconcini slices.
3. Arrange the remaining eggplant into the dish, the remaining basil leaves. Cover with remaining tomato sauce, and sprinkle the parmesan over the top. Bake for 30 minutes, until golden brown on top.
4. Serve hot or cold with mixed salad leaves, dressed with balsamic vinegar and olive oil.

Jane adds:

bocconcini are small, semi-soft, white, rind less, unripened mild cheeses. They originated in Napoli the name is Italian for ‘small mouthfuls’. Once made only from milk of water buffaloes, nowadays they are usually made from a combination of water buffalo and cow’s milk. Each cheese is about the size, shape and colour of a hardboiled egg. Baby or mini bocconcini are smaller, about the size of a teaspoon. Bocconcini are sold packaged in whey or water and have a spongy texture which readily absorbs the flavours they are combined with. Bocconcini is often used in tomato and basil based salads and pasta dishes.

I’ll include Jane’s very tasty Tomato Sauce Recipe (also in her book)

This is a basic tomato sauce with can be made with a surplus of tomatoes in season. Out of season you can use half fresh and half canned tomatoes. It takes no time to make and you will find it useful for so many recipes. Great as a pasta sauce, or as a sauce base on pizzas.

Makes 4 cups

What you need

2 tbsp extra virgin oil 1 onion, finely chopped 2 garlic cloves, halved 1kg tomatoes, diced seasonal fresh herbs of your choice pinch sea salt

What you do

1. Combine the oil, onion and garlic in a large saucepan, and cook for 2 minutes over medium het, stirring often.
2. Add the tomatoes, and cook for a further 5 minutes. Cover and bring to the boil, then reduce the heat and simmer, covered, for 30 minutes.
3. Transfer to a large bowl and add herbs. Use a hand blender or upright blender to puree until smooth. Season to taste. Tomato sauce will keep in an airtight container for up to 5 days in the fridge. It can also be frozen for up to 2 months.

©Jane Grover – Recipe from Jane’s cookbook ‘NAKED FOOD the way food was meant to be’
 ~ www.janegrover.net ~

I actually use all the sauce in the bake as it’s so yummy. I also use the whole container of bocconcini just to save on throwing any out in case I don’t use up the whole lot – either way it’s still delicious.

Let me know what you think when you make it! Bon Appetit xx

 

Values to Teach

It is sometimes a challenge for the modern day parents to teach the age old values in an increasing and relevant way. Perhaps you could highlight one of these on your family notice board each week.

* Kind words cost little but accomplish much

* Work is its own reward

* Brothers and sisters are the best allies in times of trouble

* To have friends, you must first be one

* A soft answer turns away anger, but harsh words cause quarrels

* Honesty is the best policy

* Attitude is a choice – choose to be positive

* Pride comes before a fall

Talk about them with your little ones, ask them what they mean to them. Maybe something happened today where these sayings could be applied?

I think they are relevant no matter what age you are. Let me demonstrate the last one – Pride comes before a fall.

When Ruby was in Kindy, at the athletics carnival they have a Kindy mums’ race, where you piggy back your child. Now I considered myself quite the runner so I grabbed Ruby, I’m not sure she was that keen, headed to the starting line and sized up my competition. Easy, I’ve got this one in the bag, I thought. Stand aside ladies, here I come. Well in front of the whole school on the oval, just 10 metres from the finishing line I was out in front and loving it, when I tripped and Ruby and I went splattering to the ground. How embarrassing. I picked up my crying kindy kid and finished the race -last!! My friends enjoyed every moment – and one of them pointed out “Well Chris, you know what they say – Pride comes before a fall!!”

The above info came from a parenting magazine from New Zealand I used to subscribe to. I loved it. You can find it at www.theparentingplace.com

Keep Notes

We rarely left the girls for more than a couple of days when they were young but when we did I would type out long instructions to give to whoever was looking after them, whether it was my mum, relative or good friend. I just came across some of the notes the other day and they brought back so many memories of things I had forgotten. You think you will remember everything, but you don’t. Sometimes I look at photos and don’t even know how old the girls were at the time (sad isn’t it).

When I showed them to Ruby and Eloise they both laughed and said how they had forgotten all those things too. Without embarrassing my girls (actually I’m always embarrassing them – that’s part of being a mum), here are some things we had forgotten:

Eloise has two scoops of Toddler milk in her bottle , she will ask for about 20 bottles during the day. If she really whinges for a “milky in a bottle” I give in – makes life easier. (actually that’s the tamed down version). Geoff still sings “milky in a bottle” whenever he hears “message in a bottle” by Sting.

Paints – are in the laundry, paper in the far corner – good luck. This will keep them occupied for at least 3 minutes – only takes you about 10 minutes to set it up – is it worth it???

Then I proceeded to list out the food requirements. Oh my goodness what was I thinking:

Ruby’s lunch:

White bread (hy-fibre) sandwich, no butter, avocado, cut in half
Half an orange, cut into quarters, with white pit cut off and skin left on
Vita-wheat with butter and vegemite
Piece of capsicum cut into strips
Kraft cheese spread snack biscuits (not sure about those today)

I’ve stopped typing because the list goes on to further extremes.

Anyway the notes do bring back lots of memories, perhaps more for me than for the girls. But really at the end of the day it’s always been about me!!

So no matter what things you think you should throw out because you will remember these beautiful, hectic days…..don’t! My notes were actually so precise it revealed to me exactly what I was doing all those years ago.

And even if your kids are teenagers, please write down, type up, record all the little things you think you’ll remember.

Feel free to send me your thoughts. xx